I just read a post on an author community site that got me thinking. This individual had been a member of the site for over 7 years and was quitting because whenever he tried to help a new writer, they were rude and ungrateful.
I recently experienced something similar with a loved one. When I gently pointed out her rudeness, she said she didn't know it was rude. I had spent my time completing a task for this individual, and all I wanted in return was a simple "thank you." Not getting one was disappointing and hearing that she hadn't considered her actions as rude made me really question how much I'd help her in the future.
Do people understand that when we give our time and effort it is an act of love? It is a gift. Not because they are owed the knowledge or time we're sharing, but because we care enough to invest in them.
I hope I show my gratitude to those who invest in me - whether it's time and effort, knowledge and wisdom, or simply love and support. If I haven't told you lately how grateful I am, allow me to now.
THANK YOU! Thank you for reading my stories, for cheering me on and for giving me the motivation to continue when doubt creeps in. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
And this is the end of my rant.
I recently experienced something similar with a loved one. When I gently pointed out her rudeness, she said she didn't know it was rude. I had spent my time completing a task for this individual, and all I wanted in return was a simple "thank you." Not getting one was disappointing and hearing that she hadn't considered her actions as rude made me really question how much I'd help her in the future.
Do people understand that when we give our time and effort it is an act of love? It is a gift. Not because they are owed the knowledge or time we're sharing, but because we care enough to invest in them.
I hope I show my gratitude to those who invest in me - whether it's time and effort, knowledge and wisdom, or simply love and support. If I haven't told you lately how grateful I am, allow me to now.
THANK YOU! Thank you for reading my stories, for cheering me on and for giving me the motivation to continue when doubt creeps in. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
And this is the end of my rant.